Pilgrimage towards Peace

Enough

When you’re a mother to adoptive and foster kiddos, people often say that when you have a Black child you become Black, when you have an Indian child you become Indian, when you have a Latino child yo... ...more

Adoption ,Faith Family &Parenting

February 07, 20251 min read

Enough

Mantras

For the past thirteen years, my biggest mantra has been to look for the light, even in the darkest of circumstances. But one of my favorite authors, Ethan Joella, wrote a beautiful book where one of t... ...more

Encouragement ,Faith

January 28, 20252 min read

Mantras

Winter Break

How are you doing after winter break? My husband and I often feel that it’s the hardest time of year for us, and this break was no exception. Here are my thoughts after surviving the toughest break we... ...more

Encouragement ,Faith &Parenting

January 10, 20251 min read

Winter Break

A Funny Story

A funny story. Why "funny?" Because we have to laugh about these things, or else we would cry. On Saturday night we invited some our oldest friends over for lantern making and a marsh walk. They wer... ...more

Encouragement ,Parenting

January 07, 20253 min read

A Funny Story

A Gentle Reminder

Hey everyone. This is just a gentle reminder to all the mamas and papas out there with really hard kiddos. There is LIGHT in those we love and it is our job to keep looking for it day after day after ... ...more

Family ,Parenting

January 04, 20251 min read

A Gentle Reminder

Silent Night

All was not silent or calm in our house on the night of Christmas. Even though our day was laden with the things of Christmas songs – matching Christmas jammies, beautiful church hymns, stockings ove... ...more

Adoption ,Family &Parenting

January 01, 20253 min read

Silent Night

Big

I have a little girl with BIG feelings. She's always been like this, and I pray it will serve her well someday. Yet, after two large tearful tantrums yesterday, I heard her say something that I knew I... ...more

Family ,Parenting

December 18, 20243 min read

Big

Answered Prayer

I thought I understood special needs. I thought I had enough experience as a mom to handle whatever would come my way when we brought our last two children home from Colombia. I didn't, on either acco... ...more

Adoption ,Family &Parenting

December 11, 20243 min read

Answered Prayer

Light And Leaves

There is something remarkable about Autumn. As the world prepares to hibernate, the trees go out in almost a flame of glory. Reds, oranges and yellows explode all around our neighborhood.... unless of... ...more

Encouragement

November 20, 20242 min read

Light And Leaves

Signs

I met with a lovely woman today to talk about adoption. She and her husband don't have children, and her heart is open to adoption, but she felt paralyzed by decision making and the length of the time... ...more

Adoption ,Family &Parenting

November 15, 20243 min read

Signs

Locusts

This is a hard stage for me, even though I knew it would be. Previously, my sister and I joked that I would raise all the babies and she would take over when they were teens. I now have four teenagers... ...more

Encouragement ,Family &Parenting

November 12, 20243 min read

Locusts

Finding Our Way

I couldn't sleep last night. With my husband out of state on business, and a little one next to me in bed, I tossed and turned. Seeing the votes come in, I kept whispering to myself, "It's going to be... ...more

Encouragement ,Parenting

November 06, 20243 min read

Finding Our Way

Question Mark

Fourteen. (Question mark). One of my oldest daughters has a birthday marked by the day that she arrived at the orphanage. Is she fourteen years and two days old? Fourteen years and five months old? O... ...more

Adoption ,Encouragement &Family

October 21, 20242 min read

Question Mark

Beautiful

Our daughter, Maria Morning, is a special little girl. She is sassy and sweet and has made incredible strides since she came home to us a year ago. We are so proud of her. ...more

Adoption

October 15, 20242 min read

Beautiful

Year In Review

For anyone fascinated by adoption, curious about what it looks like, or just a part of our family's life - this is my perspective on Maria and Matias' first year home. We celebrated their first adopti... ...more

Adoption ,Faith Family &Parenting

October 08, 20243 min read

Year In Review

Looking Up

As I write this, I’ve just transferred the grocery bags from my front porch (thank God for Walmart+) to the mat inside our front door. Even now, as I sit outside, I see a football that needs to be put... ...more

Adoption

October 02, 20242 min read

Looking Up

His

We live in a home built in 1926, so to say there is an endless amount of work to be done is an understatement. However, over time, we have chipped away at the list, and for that I am thankful. This ye... ...more

Encouragement ,Faith &Family

September 17, 20242 min read

His

Their Guard

How has the school year started for your kiddos? My objective was simply to get my children to school. We completed all of the medical appointments, filled out all the forms, purchased new shoes, went... ...more

Adoption ,school

September 06, 20241 min read

Their Guard

Enough

The kids started school two weeks ago, and now it's 98 degrees out? Summer wasn't quite ready to die. So I, too, will act as if it's alive and well. ...more

Encouragement

September 03, 20242 min read

Enough

Chicago

Chicago is not merely a place. Places are simply locations through which you walk. Chicago is my place. As I walk alongside the Chicago River to meet my best friend since the fifth grade, I recognize ... ...more

Encouragement ,Chicago &Faith

August 26, 20242 min read

Chicago

Stability

Reasons my children were grumpy this morning: A sibling was reading a book that wasn't hers Her favorite breakfast had run out One kiddo wanted to leave five minutes earlier… …and another wanted to l... ...more

Encouragement

August 21, 20241 min read

Stability

Summer

These are the weeks when we feel we've lived our whole day... and it's only 2pm. When we've already made meals, doused our children in sunblock, packed more snacks than we think they can feasibly eat,... ...more

Encouragement

August 01, 20241 min read

Summer

Zooming In

There are days when the state of humanity weighs you down. You hear a debate or read something online or get a letter in the mail and your soul is tempted to despair. The same thing happens with my ki... ...more

Encouragement

July 19, 20242 min read

Zooming In

Hope Elusive

My mission in writing is to provide hope to the parents of kiddos who have special needs and experienced trauma. Our kiddos with special needs have come to us through adoption, and many of our childre... ...more

Encouragement

June 27, 20242 min read

Hope Elusive

Summer Rain

I'm sitting in the car as rain pours down and Taylor sings quietly through the speakers. My window is slightly open, and the rain mists onto my leg like an anointing. My 2-year-old niece is asleep in... ...more

Encouragement

June 04, 20242 min read

Summer Rain

Big Hearts, Thick Skin, Eyes on Him

How many weeks of summer lie in front of you, and what mantra will get you through it? In 50 hours, summer break will officially be here, and this year it's eleven weeks long. I remember ten week summ... ...more

Encouragement

May 22, 20242 min read

Big Hearts, Thick Skin, Eyes on Him

Washington and Wells

Every Sunday for almost a year, I got off the Washington and Wells “L” stop in the Chicago Loop on Sunday morning. My roommates had attended Holy Trinity, and I loved their preaching. On this particul... ...more

Encouragement

May 21, 20242 min read

Washington and Wells

Naming

When you don't get to name your children, you have no choice but find a way to love with their names. You see it as a gift from their birth parents, a way for them to leave an unerasable mark on their... ...more

Adoption

April 26, 20242 min read

Naming

Do the Darn Thing!

One of my daughters ran into the house to say that Judah crashed his bike and thought his leg was broken. No one was crying or screaming, and as I ran to the window, I saw my son walking into the hous... ...more

April 11, 20242 min read

Do the Darn Thing!

Captain America

You know it's not going to be good when the school calls you in for a pre-IEP meeting. Our son's meeting was scheduled for Thursday, but they reached out via email the week before to ask if I could co... ...more

Encouragement

April 08, 20242 min read

Captain America

Our Wayward Ducks

Our ducks are rarely in a row. I thought we were all ready to go this morning, the girls' hair was almost done and I was packing their lunches into their lunch boxes. However, my son discovered he c... ...more

school

April 02, 20243 min read

Our Wayward Ducks

Silly Me. Or the Lego Massacre of 2024.

I took a picture of María and Matías standing at the sink on a step stool playing in the water. It filled my heart with gratitude and as I watched them play, I thought of the song I sang as I longed f... ...more

March 24, 20242 min read

Silly Me. Or the Lego Massacre of 2024.

Who We Are

Even though 2024 is off to a rougher start than usual in the Roney house, it helps me to remember who God says I am, and who God says He is. For me, this comes from listening to the worship songs from... ...more

Encouragement ,Faith

March 05, 20242 min read

Who We Are

Learning to Ride a Bike

We had an unusually difficult morning today. After much repetition, my son still didn't grasp where the boundary lines were for where he was allowed to ride his bike. His grandfather found him three b... ...more

March 04, 20242 min read

Learning to Ride a Bike

Canceled

I have never canceled a birthday party in our house due to behavior. Illness, yes - as winter birthdays on the cusp of spring rarely go off without a hitch. But for behavior? Never. Having grown up wi... ...more

Adoption ,Family &Parenting

February 21, 20242 min read

Canceled
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